I adore Carie’s blog Space for the Buttefiles and I have serious envy over the beautiful things she can make. I think she has magic hands! 🙂
Carie makes the most beautiful quilts for her children and I swear she’s also a knitting goddess. When I grow-up (as if I’m not! 😉 I want to be like her. And I honestly think she should’ve won in the BiB Awards for the Crafts Category. As if that’s not enough, she also takes beautiful photographs.
I know I’m gushing, so before I end up embarrassing myself any further, do come and meet her lovely family:
Tell us something about yourself and your little ones (age & sex)
I’m Carie and I’m Mum to Kitty age 4, Elma who’s 2 and our little Pip Squeak has just turned 10 months.
What were your children’s birth stories like?
Wildly different! Kitty was born at 42 weeks 1 day after an induction on top of early labour. My whole labour start to finish was about 48 hours and at one stage I was utterly convinced that I was going to be in labour for the rest of forever!
Elma on the other hand was just a smidgen quicker; I turned up on the labour ward having done a good few hours at home only to be told I was only 4 cm, “but you’re a second time mum, we’ll just keep you in for an hour to see if things pick up” That was about 4.15, at about 5 o’clock my waters broke with a force that knocked my breath away and Elma was born at 5.11 having narrowly avoided being born in the bathroom of the assessment ward.
And Pip was different again, my waters broke before labour had started and as there was a smidgen of meconium and I was showing no signs of going into labour any time soon I was induced again, but it was a lot easier – and shorter – than the first time.
My birth plan with Kitty said that I’d really like to use the birthing pool for labour and possibly delivery – three children later and the nearest I’ve got is being in the room next to it!
What you wish you knew about being a mother, before becoming one?
Quite how fierce a mother’s love is for her children. I look at my three and the rush of feeling that I have for them is overwhelming. My family is my whole world.
How do you manage your “me” time?
I don’t sleep! With three little ones there isn’t much time for me time in our everyday until they’ve gone to sleep and I’m terrible for staying up later than I should just to have that mental space. I’m sometimes tired but mostly happier if my day has ended with a bit of creativity.
Do you have any favorite anecdote of your little ones?
Oh this is so hard to choose. I think one of my favourites of all time I’ve actually only seen on video; my husband took Kitty and Elma to the Natural History Museum when I was at BritMums last year and we were a bit worried that she’d be frightened by the animatronic dinosaurs because as a rule Kitty hates puppets and things of that ilk. But instead I have a clip of a tiny little girl striding up to an enormous T-Rex and shouting “Talk to me dinosaur! Talk to me!”
What is it about motherhood you absolutely love about?
It’s true unconditional love, in both directions. That feeling when you realise that you are the one person in the world that your baby wants, that no one else will do,and that only you can bring them comfort and happiness; that’s a pretty powerful feeling.
On the one hand, if there’s anything about motherhood you dislike about, what would it be?
Honestly, it sounds silly, but accidents/nappysplosions on the sofa. I sort it out serene and calm on the surface but inside my head is saying “Nooooooooooo!”
What’s a typical day like for you and your little ones?
At the moment I’m on maternity leave so I’m home full time with all three. Kitty goes to preschool two days a week but other than we have a little rhythm of the week at home; getting the housework done, reading stories, going shopping, having lunch, and then most afternoons we head up to the park or play out in the back garden. I’m a huge fan of spending as much time as possible outside, especially in the summer, and the side effect is that the house stays quite tidy too!
Best advice you’ve ever received about motherhood/parenthood?
Never take all of the credit or all of the blame.
If you could give yourself advice about motherhood before becoming one, what would it be?
If everyone is fractious you need to get outside or sing, or both. It works a treat and it took me a while to work it out!
How do you manage your time, blogging/workwise and time with your little ones and other activities as well?
I don’t generally blog during the day. I might nip in and out if I’m reading my phone while trying to get Pip to take a rare nap not in the sling but we try to be as screen free as possible with the children and that generally means leading by example. So blogging and reading blogs all happens in the evening. Occasionally I’ll knit or plan some sewing during the day but mostly the days are about the house and the children and the evenings are about spending time with my husband and pursing our hobbies. And see above comment about not enough sleep – I have definitely not got this figured out!
Thank you so much Carie!
If you haven’t taken a peek at her blog yet, do so now 🙂
And if you’ve missed last month’s chat with a dad, you can head over now and have a read.